As many genealogists know, researching Eastern European ancestors is hard! You have unique spellings, illiteracy, name changes, border changes, and plain old lack of stories from the old country. My mom was always frustrated that I couldn’t find as much information on her line as I found on my dad’s. These past couple years, I made baby-step progress in my maternal line; and as I pulled together research for this blog post, I made an incredible discovery that should put a good-size crack in that brick wall!
To start, I wrote about what I knew about my Valek great-great grandparents here. My first mystery was Elisabeth Valek’s death date. I knew it had to be between 1920 and 1930, based on census information. Thanks to Reclaim the Records obtaining and publishing the New York State death record indexes on archive.org, I found that she died on December 31, 1922.
Next up, Elisabeth’s maiden name. In 2018, my great-grandmother’s FindaGrave memorial was published and included her obituary that was published in The Suffolk Times when she died in 1983. The obituary stated that she was the daughter of “Adam and Elizabeth Gudellis Valek”. I have since found out that their son Antone’s marriage record states that her maiden name was “Gudals”. So now I have some things to search on.
Finally my most recent and probably most exciting discovery! I was looking at the FindaGrave photo of Antone’s memorial and noticed that there was more than one picture posted. I saw that Antone’s stone was one of several footstones, and the main headstone read “Welikes”. Knowing that Eastern European w’s are often pronounced “v”, I could totally see how that might be pronounced “Valek”. But just to check, I put in a search for “Welikes” at that cemetery. It came back with two graves: Adam, who died 1942, and “Alzbeita”, who died 1922. Jackpot!
Some preliminary research has shown the surname also as “Weleikes” and “Weilike”, eventually evolving into “Valic” then “Valek”. I have to wonder if the headstone had the spelling that it did as a nod to their original Lithuanian heritage.
At any rate, I am so excited to have “Elisabeth Valek” finally identified as “Alzbeita Gudellis (or Gudals)”! Already I am making some new discoveries for the Valek family, thanks to someone simply taking a picture of the family burial plot.